It might look like the stuff of a classic midlife crisis, and in some cases, it might be.
In fact, Weiss says, a man treating himself to a nice jacket or golf lessons is a healthy outlet for insecurities that might otherwise lead to an affair.
This Valentine's Day, it might be time to update your #Relationship Goals -- and one to add to your list is getting out of the “dinner-and-a-movie” date rut.
But first things first, it’s important we cover the core principles of pickup that form the foundation to all of this. If you prefer video learning we recommend this video: (It’s the best way to master pickup in a short space of time) Ok lets get started! Unless you want to get rudely rejected, start with welcoming environments that allow natural conversation to flow – cafes, bars, clubs, house parties, sports events, and shopping centres are all great locations to find women to talk to. If you can pick up girls in bars and clubs there’s no reason you can’t get a girls number whilst ordering a flat white on your morning commute to work.I started matchmaking via intuition at the age of 20, and since then, have coached thousands of singles of all ages at my Smart Dating Academy to find happy love.We are thrilled to have zero splits or divorces, keeping in mind most divorces happen within the first seven years of marriage.When you find a girl you want to approach, always assess the situation first.If she looks in a hurry or appears to be emotionably unavailable, respect her space. Practice on your highs and lows and accentuating words like you’re telling a story. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not to impress a girl."It doesn't matter if he's lying about stealing ten bucks from your wallet or about sex—it's about the betrayal of trust." If it seems like a stretch to compare a few dollars to an affair, remember how much easier it is for men, biologically, to have sex without attachment, says Weiss. Our brains are built so we can have objectified non-relational experiences." It's not a justification, but it is a reminder that if your guy is breaking your trust over small things, bigger fibs might be coming.